About ME
Hi, I am Poonam
A Fertility Mindset Coach.
A Mother A fertility challenged, 35 year + woman!
A high achieving, ambitious personality who loves to plan and control her life!!!
Here's my story...
I struggled with my fertility for years.
As a third-generation working woman, I strived to excel in my career. I was a go-getter, hard-working, overachiever for whom nothing was impossible once she put her mind to it.
Couple of years after being married, we went from “We never want to have kids” to saying, “Maybe it’s not a bad idea.. let’s try.." When we decided to have kids, I was determined to "make it happen" that year.
Who knew it would happen on the first try, we were pregnant… overjoyed.. thrilled.. It felt unreal.. We fell in love with our future child, started dreaming about our future.. 💜💕Unfortunately, I miscarried at week 9 and we were devastated. I still remember the emptiness, a different kind of unreal-ness I felt back then.. As if this wasn’t my life.. It was a nightmare I was going to wake up from anytime. But it wasn’t.. I was as real as it gets.
We grieved…
my Body healed, Heart tried!!! 💔❤️🩹
We struggled for years to have our Rainbow baby. I was already a mother with no child, mother to an angel.. 👼
We tried very hard, tried all the supplements, diets, tracking systems to conceive. That “Maybe” had turned into, “when will it be my time”.
As months went by, hope dwindled.. Every negative pregnancy test broke our hearts a little. It led to a lot of grief, strain on our relationship and suffering. I realized we were missing a critical piece to the puzzle.
We were trying to make shifts in the physical world, when we needed to make shifts in our mind space. Our thoughts, our beliefs, our emotions.
- I stopped comparing my life with others and instead of shutting myself off, I embraced Love over Fear!
- I learned how to eliminate the negative influence in my life and nurture the positive relationships and create a super support circle.
- I learned how to strongly belief in and advocate for my body and myself no matter what the statistics said.
- Our relationship thrived and we communicated better than ever (which is the foundation of coparenting)
- I became fearless, deeply trusting in myself and the power I had to create my future. Manifest my baby into this physical world.
After years of trying, failing, grieving, loving, forgiving, accepting and trusting… our son came to us against all odds. 👶🏻💜🌈
Defying all odds, we manifested our Miracle..With a little help from Science 🧪, with an unwavering partnership with the Universe 🌌💛and a deep trust in my body and mind. 🧘🏻♀️
My work with my mindset helped me look beyond the obstacles, be resilient and solution focused in the most disheartening situations and to keep my outlook on my best case scenario.
Through this journey I became a mom with a strong growth mindset which I continue to improve in my journey into motherhood.
Today, I teach women how to master their mindset to manifest their miracles and become the conscious mothers they are meant to be! 🧘🏻
I carry and practice all the lessons I learnt. Now and forever.
Because, motherhood has no destination! It is all about the journey!!!
The only question is..
How are you living your motherhood journey?